I have friends who struggle with confidence, and it's definitely something I've struggled with in the past. Recently, I've come to terms with my confidence level and really feel good about myself. It's wonderful and exciting!
So here's how you do it:
First, realize that society wants something from you. That is: they want you to be sexy. It doesn't matter if you're 12 or 45, you're expected to be sexy. It's just how it is.
Being sexy comes from feeling good about yourself, not from displaying an immodest amount of cleavage. Wear clothes that you love wearing - not just because others want you to wear them, but because you love them yourself - behave the way you'd like others to behave towards you, surround yourself with people who raise you up and make you feel good, and do things you love. For some people, like me, hair and makeup is important, so make sure you do your hair and makeup just the way you want.
And believe in yourself! Confidence is sexy. Confidence is attractive. It's appealing.
You know you're a remarkable individual, and no one should ever bring you down. Believing in yourself is so hard sometimes, but know that people really do appreciate you. Maybe you should ask one of the people who is "too good for you" what he/she really thinks of you. You'd be surprised - pleasantly!
Go out and rock the world with your confidence!
xoxox
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